There are some important situations to watch out for when the guy is not divorced yet.
Most women don’t realize tremendous downside of dating while separated.
My intuition is telling me to walk away from my current romantic situation but there are other factors involved and I don’t want to make a mistake.
He is currently separated from his wife and has been for almost two years. I went out on three dates with him before he told me that he’d told his wife about us.
Within a week of this he informed me that she was texting him constantly and putting him under a lot of pressure and he was feeling guilty.
On our 4th and 5th date he suddenly went very cold on me. He then informed me that he was going to see his wife to ‘sort things out and move on one way or the other’ and he hope I understood!
I was fine with that but, heard nothing for a few days so naturally I was a little anxious when he eventually text me.
He said things were really bad between then and then had loads to sort out.
I informed him that I wasn’t happy with the way things were going between us and suggested I give him some space which he agreed to.
He said he would text me when ‘his head was sorted’. I’ve had a few texts since but nothing to indicate that we are getting back together.
I bumped into him recently and he was a little drunk but all over me.
I admit to pushing him to make a few dates along the way but have never text or called him before he has done so.
I’ve not always been available to meet him also which he did not like.
I’m not sure if I’ve pushed him away or if it’s really his circumstances that are keeping away.