Think your natural-born bashful tendencies are keeping you single? While you may sometimes feel anxious, uncertain, and/or insecure when it comes to dating, the truth is that the right kind of woman will appreciate your unassuming ways. If you’re a shy guy, you’ll need to start projecting self-confidence when dealing with women, even if you don’t fully feel it yet.When in doubt, the following five tips should help ease your dating anxiety and help you ultimately woo the woman of your dreams. Keep in mind, confidence is different than bragging and boasting.A confident man can comfortably make eye contact with a cute stranger, offer a friendly smile, and strike up a casual conversation without seeming phony or full of himself.
Practice making and maintaining eye contact with a member of the opposite sex every day for a week.The following week, add a friendly smile to your efforts. It’s true what they say — practice makes perfect, so the more you put these new behaviors into practice, the more natural they’ll become.By the time you meet someone amazing, you’ll be ready, willing, and able to confidently and comfortably ask her out.If your beliefs about dating have been largely negative, it’s time to retrain your brain. Let go of any dating disappointments and other drama you’ve experienced.Believe that future dating success IS possible for you.
By thinking positively, you engage the law of attraction.
In turn, you start attracting healthy, happy, confident women into your life. Every morning when you wake up, and also right before you go to bed, say to yourself, “Dating is…” and fill in the blank.
Examples include “Dating is easy,” “Dating is fun,” “Dating is abundant,” etc.
The key is to retrain your brain until you actually embrace your new belief system.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised at how easily you’ll attract members of the opposite sex.
Just as you should fake confidence and retrain your brain, you should also strive to become your best self. By looking, acting, and talking as though you know who you really are and that you are comfortable in your own skin. Day by day, work toward becoming the best version of yourself.