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I just recently went on a first date with a very charming, decent, kind man, who I definitely am interested in.However, I don't want to move too quickly with him, because I've experienced this "instant attraction" before, and learned that investing too much of myself too soon usually results in me getting hurt terribly.The problem is, after just one date, he wants to be exclusive with me, and I am just not ready.I told him that it wasn't that I didn't like him, I just don't want to push things too far so soon.He proceeded to ask me if I was going to continue to see other guys while dating him at the same time.
I really didn't want to say, "Yes.", because I didn't want to hurt his feelings.
I just restated that I wasn't ready for a commitment just yet, and had to get to know him better first before making that decision.
So my question is, do you think it's disrespectful to date multiple people at once?
And what do you do once someone you are dating wants to be exclusive?
There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time as long as all parties knows this.
Second , the guy that wants to be exclusive with you after one date, I would be gone faster like Kobe Bryant at a broke back mountain country party in Mississippi .