You can’t expect a partner to know what you like unless you tell them. Tip: If you have been diagnosed with an STI, you will need to share this information with potential partners.People sometimes think that if their partner really loved them or cared about them the other person would do exactly what they wanted. No two people want the same things, have the same fantasies, or want to be touched in the same ways. How many sexual partners have you had since your last round of testing? The more positive, honest, and straight-forward you can be, the more positively your partner will hear you.Remember that whether you feel physical pleasure in response to something a partner does is not an indicator of their “skill” as a lover. STI status: When were you last tested for STIs, and what were the results? Having an STI does not mean the end of a good sex life, but if you feel ashamed of your STI your partner will likely pick up on this.
Type of relationship that you want: Committed or non-committed? Allow them to ask you questions, and do your best to answer them all honestly and without getting defensive.
Remember that this is new news to your partner, and it may take him or her some time to adjust.
It’s a great idea to have a pamphlet or book from ASHA’s library to give them to read, as well. “Safer Sex” precautions: What barriers do you want to use?
Dawno temu, około 10 lat wstecz, gdy pracowałem w Holandii i szukałem nowych wrażeń, miałem ochotę na Azjatkę, wiec poszedłem do okienek i wszedłem do jednej z nich. Tyle tego biadolenia i trzeba wracać do rzeczywistości.
Nie śniło mi się nawet wtedy o Japonce, ale mieszkałem z takim starszym kolegą, który wtedy za taką sikał. Teraz jestem w pracy i zostały mi jeszcze 3 godziny do wyjścia, a później trójkąt z dwoma panienkami i do dzieła.
Ładna dzisiaj pogoda i trzeba to wykorzystać na całego. Zaraz idę zapalić bo już mam mały głód, tak jak w tej reklamie. “Imagine going to a restaurant where the chef served you whatever he or she felt like fixing instead of giving you a choice.Imagine a gardener who never asked, ‘How do you like your bushes trimmed?’ Yet when it comes to sex many of us assume that we know what our partner wants, or we clam up instead of giving feedback.” (6th ed.) It is perfectly okay to keep some things private, especially fantasies that you enjoy on your own and do not care to share with someone else.But in any relationship, whether for one night or many years, there are things about which you do need to communicate.Talking about sex openly makes for relationships that are more fun and satisfying.