Use them effectively and you’ll slice through meaningless chatter to create deeper connections.Use them poorly and you’ll chop yourself down into a chump stump. Many dating gurus claim that giving women compliments is needy and weak. Are you saying it to get a response (ulterior motive) or because you want to share sincere praise? The problem is that a ton of guys give compliments with strings attached. I’m not making up lines to say, it’s how I really feel.
If I compliment a girl, it’s because she’s earned it. WORDS THAT SEDUCE Enjoy Enticing Conversations AFTER THE FIRST "HELLO" I wonder if you recently reflected on this weird situation: to know there is no such thing as a "best pickup line a man can use" and yet thinking to yourself how to start up a conversation with that gorgeous girl that you are watching. - Or, in other words: ■ How to make a good impression? ■ How to make her talk back to you when you say something? You know you have to be enthousiast, friendly, interested, sufficiently good looking, assertive, fun and smart. However, statistics teach that the initial - and often definitive - impression is based in the first place on appearance and body language(55%). But if she thanks you, smiles and gets funny, you're in. Men tend to focus on the verbal skills or tricks that will allow them to make contact. How is it that you know so much about Some qualify the following follow-up lines as bad : So, what do you do for work? Excuse me, but I think you just dropped something (showing pen, . .) Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again? If she says "thank you, sir"s and turns away, then she's definitely not interested. What you say accounts only for 7% of the impact you make. Therefore, the first thing to do is: try to make eye contact, even if only for a fraction of a second. Contrary to what you may have been thinking, the perfect opening line is easy enough to find: it does not really matter at all. It may be a good idea to stick for a while to the opening subject: It's non treatening, less conspiscious and therefore raising less resistance It's always a good idea to listen actively to what other people have to say Allows for a strategical retreat: nothing has happened yet. If, after the first contact, your target does not look back to you, you know that the battle may be lost even before it's begun. You can say almost anything you want, as long as you do it in a friendly way. You can learn a lot from her reactions, without having to reveal much of yourself.
If a girl is interested in you, she won't care about what you say. Only after you are convinced that you're in, can you use one of these "pick-up lines" that are often mistakingly advertised as first-contact starters: Can I borrow a quarter? What does matter is that you make your move before somebody else runs away with her. I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the girl of my dreams. How to go about it, is described in some detail in my files about flirting and dating: ■ succesful flirting and dating ■ elementary guide for flirting and dating ■ the incredible power of words. ■ Hypnotic communication which you will find on and on com (query= Dean Amory). It is a good idea to have more than one opening line in your sleeve. You may need the second to restart the conversation if the first one does not trigger the conversation. A safe way to open a conversation is asking a general question that is directly related to the environment where you are, or making a neutral statement and end by asking the other person's opinion: Hi, what's up?