Is there a way to avoid it, or should I just avoid these men if they go into it? With one amazing caveat – they’re never held accountable for their actions.I want to do something revolutionary here and change that statement to “we’re never held accountable for our actions”.
Sure, I’ve gone there before – notably when discussing liars. It’s called the Washington Post Test: “If you are facing an ethical dilemma, ask yourself what you would do if you knew that your actions would make the front page of tomorrow’s Washington Post.” When faced with the idea of being “outed” for the world to see, our standards of behavior skyrocket.
See, it’s okay when I say I’m 5’10” instead of 5’9”, but it’s awful when a woman claims to be 130lbs when she’s really 150lbs. Would anybody leave a profane message like Alec Baldwin did for his daughter if he knew it would make the nightly news? This disconnect between what we do in public and what we do behind closed doors is WHY we have private lives – so we can hide things that might be considered embarrassing.
It’s fine when I say I have an “athletic” body instead of an average one, but it’s not cool when she says she’s 35 when she’s really 37. God knows I’ve probably done some foolhardy things over fifteen years of dating, and I can only hope that those women have forgiven me.
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I want to know if it is possible to have a conversation with a guy without it getting sexual?
I’m not talking about a little flirting, I’m talking about body parts being described, how they would be used, etc.I’m all for a little flirting, but it seems like the internet puts no barriers on what a person will say.I mean, if I met some guy at a party, after a little flirting, he wouldn’t tell me how hard his C$(K is, now would he?!?!And he wouldn’t want to know how I think that would feel, either. Millions of people hiding behind their computers to connect.Now, he may very well be thinking these things, but he would never come out and say them in person, especially after knowing me only a few minutes. And that’s the thing with conversations that devolve into sex talk. Except some of them are dorks parading as big shots. And some are women being brazen when they’re super-shy in real life.I don’t have a problem with a man telling me I am sexy, but if I acknowledge that, am I setting myself up for these kinds of conversations? But the one thing we know about online communications is that people can be whoever they want to be.